DRAIN

It is curious that some people develop (by their own making) an intense dislike for you just because you refuse to be abused, taken advantage of and exploited by them.

A very selfish and self centered trait. They often look to blame others and make their problems and challenges everyone's problem. Some may call them "Emotional Vampires"

These people like all of us have a very deep problem that they alone can overcome.

If you are one of them here is the truth "STOP BLAMING OTHERS FOR YOUR ISSUES" surround yourself with positivity as best as you can, accept and admit your flaws as a first step towards a long road to recovery.

No matter how distracted you keep yourself, the truth still remains deep inside and you will never be happy. It will eat at you and manifest itself in unexplained bouts of random anger and frustration.

A constant habit of looking for the negative and problems where there are none and taking constructive criticism as attacks.

You will be blind to your true friends and loved ones because you fail to see their good intentions. You will fail to see those who exploit you and base your plastic happiness on plastic foundations.

Sun rise and sun down are not mistakes... This is REAL LIFE!!

"LEAPHAR the Craftsman"

MADIBA! NELSON MANDELA!

 FATHER WARRIOR TEACHER

On the face of such a gentle soul... Eminating Wisdom.. caring... Loving.. Intelligent...
You held these Titles and showed us by your actions.. Your Tenacity through Pain and Incarceration..

Your wisdom to OVERstand, Oversee and Orchestrate the reconciliantion of mixed masses of the Human Community

Your capacity to forgive despite the injustice... the pain.. the crimes...

Madiba I grew up knowing about the injustice against you.. I remember the song "Free Nelson Mandela"..

My Earliest knowledge of Racism.. Apartheid.. left me Stupefied and confused as a child.. wondering why the hate.. SO MUCH HATE! And why against my kind....

But there you were.. Our Warrior..my light.. our light..

At your first opportunity.. you didnt hit back but you reached out...

You didnt complain .. you embraced and taught us to seek reconciliation.. and to let love fill our hearts...

Echoing the teachings of our Lord.. you were indeed an ambassador ..

Thank you for everything.. your legacy lives on..thank you... I will miss you Sir.

MADIBA "NELSON MANDELA", HENRI KONAN BEDIE, FELIX HOUPHOUET BOIGNY (PREDISENT OF THE IVORY COAST) ADIA DE SOUZA (MY MOTHER)

Pure and Helpless

It should be a privilege to be able to say "I love you" to someone. It shouldn't be something people say just because they feel like it.

A privilege that is earned.

They say you have to earn the right to be loved; no, love is unconditional, if you love someone, they don't have to earn it.

BUT

The right to tell someone that you love them? That has to be earned. You have to earn the right to be believed.

If people are going to be allowed to say "we love you" and "I love you", they'd better have the backbone to prove it. Love isn't just a word.

Real love should draw no blood from the loved and buckets from the lover.

We all have cracks and tears and shattered glass within our souls. Some have more than others. We do not wish to seek one who has none; but we wish to find the one who can say "look at me, look at this."

We wish to find the one who sees every bit of broken glass and who will put those pieces into the palms of our hands and say "please keep them." And we wish to be that kind of person, too. This is how it should be.

Our world ends and some people never understand how much we really loved them.

I must stay strong in Prayer.